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Happy Thanksgiving!

In this special Thanksgiving Episode, Host Julian G. Simmons lets Director Rob Wilson break his vow of silence to share a bit of family genealogy about the first Thanksgiving in 1621.  Rob had eight ancestors on the Mayflower.  His grandmother, Carol Green Wilson, meticulously catalogued that history, and passed it on to her 12 grandchildren.  As a ten year-old boy, Rob actually helped decipher the  tiny print to discover one of those connections.

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Those Puritans insisted on practicing their strict form of worship, and increasingly came into conflict with the  Anglicans, who ostracized them from their communities.  Under King James I, Puritans were fined and imprisoned for refusing to join the official church.  King James,once declared "I will make them conform or I will harry them out of the land, or else worse—hang them.”  

This increasing persecution drove the Puritans -- who became known as the Pilgrims -- out of England.  Wishing to worship as they chose, they fled to Holland, where they made plans to emigrate to America.  After a few false starts, and incurring a large debt to backers, they crossed the Atlantic on the Mayflower at the worst time of year -- sailing into wild, stormy seas, veering 200 miles off-course to land in a forbidding and freezing wilderness for which they were utterly unprepared.

 

The 102 passengers on the Mayflower were not, as myth suggests, a tight-knit congregation of God-fearing pilgrims, but a fractious assembly of 37 Puritans, their 21 servants (the oldest being 21, down to the youngest at 4 years old); 26 paying passengers recruited by the "London Merchant Adventurers " who funded the voyage; 6 of their servants, and a crew of ten.  Relentlessly rough seas and the unexpected brutality of the harsh winter killed almost half of those in their first year.  Besides that awful hardship, the Puritans carried an enormous debt to their backers. 

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Julian gives a glimpse into the lives of the assembled community with a dramatic reading of a letter written written by Edward Winslow, one of the Puritans who was an emissary to the Wampanoag and Patuxet.  It reflects that idealistic time when Natives and whites lived as friends and neighbors in peace, albeit tenuous.  We can view this brief moment in history as what could have been.  Tragically, the rapacious hunger for land and the grasping expansionism that infects our national character shattered this hope of peaceful co-existence with the Native people who had welcomed us as guests.  

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That devastating effect of our arrival began decades earlier,  when early European settlers brought viruses to which the Native people had no immunity.  Within years of European settlers arriving, terrible plagues of smallpox, chickenpox, syphilis, malaria, influenza, measles, the bubonic plague, and a rare disease called leptospirosis, decimated the tribes by up to 90 percent.  And when the Mayflower arrived in 1620, they found nothing but empty villages. and skeletal remains littered the landscape.

The Puritans, blinded by their faith in the Divine Providence that brought them to this New World,  deemed that devastation an Act of God preparing the land for their arrival.  Typical of the murderous arrogance of the English aristocracy, which viewed Natives as savages to be cleared like forests, England's King James I declared:

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So the few remaining Wampanoag and Patuxet did have something in common with the withering Mayflower colony.   In this episode, we focus on the arduous struggle of man against Nature and the perseverance of those early settlers.  With the help of the Wampanoag and especially their sympathetic  representative Squanto, who had been taken to England as a slave and then returned, the remaining settlers survived.  By that next fall, Natives and Settlers did have a common reason to give thanks.  That feast, which 243 years later in 1863 Abraham Lincoln officially named Thanksgiving, was truly an occasion to be proud of, and a tradition to be honored. And so we do.

In this episode, Julian and Rob  discuss the origins of this holiday in a very personal way.

Join us!

"There hath, by God’s visitation, reigned a wonderful plague, the utter destruction, devastation, and depopulation of that whole territory, so as there is not left any that do claim or challenge any kind of interest therein.” 

The Science of Friendship

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Dr. Rebecca Adams

Our next episode, coming soon,  consults with one of the world's top experts  on Friendship, Dr. Rebecca Adams, Professor of Sociology and Gerontology, Health and Human Sciences, University of North Carolina Greensboro.​  She has published 58 research papers on Friendship, and has been one of the major scholars pushing academia and government to look at fading Friendship as aserious problem.​​ 

In our last episode, we heard from listeners what THEIR concept of friendship is.   We heard a wide variety of definitions and experiences, but a common theme was that friendship is essential to health, happiness and a crucial cure to loneliness.

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That hidden trend has toward isolation and loneliness has reached epidemic proportions in America, according to a report from the former Surgeon General, Dr. Vivek Murthy.   He called global attention to the problem in the Surgeon General's Advisory on Loneliness, which showed that we are more cut off from each other than ever before.  He said,
 

"People began to tell me they felt isolated, invisible, and insignificant. Even when they couldn’t put their finger on the word “lonely,” time and time again, people of all ages and socioeconomic backgrounds, from every corner of the country, would tell me, “I have to shoulder all of life’s burdens by myself,” or “if I disappear tomorrow, no one will even notice.”

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That's tragic.  And in troubled times, it's dangerous.  As long as we feel alone, disconnected, and left out of the mainstream, the less likely we are to join hands and make our voices heard.  Together, we stand, divided we fall.  We need our friends.

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Not only does loneliness weaken us as a citizenry, it is a threat to our health and longevity.  The Surgeon General goes on: 

 

"Loneliness is ... is associated with a greater risk of cardiovascular disease, dementia, stroke, depression, anxiety, and premature death. "

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We make such a big deal of Loneliness because it afflicts a huge number of older people in America;  Us.  A 2022 study found that when people were asked how close they felt to others emotionally, only 39% of adults in the U.S. said that they felt very connected to others.  1 in 3 of Americans 55+  feel isolated, lonely and on their own.

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The antidote to loneliness, of course, is friendship.  It's having people you can trust, enjoy being with, and who will be there for you when you are down.  Gatherings of friends, laughing and sharing a meal or an experience, is a boost to us emotionally as well as physically.  Simply put, friendship lets us live longer, more fulfilling lives.

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We saw one solution to that in our episode on the Wallis Annenberg 'GENSPACE,"    Mrs. Annenberg recently passed away == the end of an era.  She was a generous and ingenious philanthropist who had a love of Nature and the Arts, and it was our hope that her Foundation might sponsor OURGENPOD.  We  know there are solutions, so we are focusing a few episodes on this very important and overlooked topic.  

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As our country is simmering on the growing flames tourched by our current administration, friendship is more vital than ever.  One good thing emerging from this conflagration is  a new solidarity  among neighbors,  communities, and growing numbers of protesters inflamed by the shocking actions of ICE and every department of our government, with democracy all but dead, we continue to focus on friendship.

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Stay tuned.

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Great News!

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We Won!!

OURGENPOD won the 2024 Discover Pods Award as Best Podcast
in the Society and Culture Category!

This is due in no small part to the support of our listeners. 

 

THANK YOU to all of you who voted for us.

Notably, we came out on top of a crowded field. 

More than 35,000 people voted. 

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"Participation and, especially, voting this year far outpaced our expectations," said James Griffin, Director of the awards.   "This speaks volumes about the state of independent podcast creators in this community ... and the fantastic work that you are doing."

We are hopeful that winning this award will open new avenues of support,
helping us continue our work on this award-winning podcast.

 

For now, we are continuing our series on FRIENDSHIP.  It's
a vital  connection between like-minded people that will be  increasingly important
as we try to survive this extremely   Hopefully, we'll be out with a new episode soon.

As many of you know, we have been producing this podcast on personal funds,

which agave hit bottom in a frightening financial pit, putting OURGENPOD in jeopardy.
We have been fighting our way out of this situation
for months now, as evidenced by the suspension of production.  
If we don't make it, this hiatus will become permanent. 

If we are going to be able to continue producing this "fantastic work." 

We can'tdo it without a little help from our friends.

Until we are able to once again find a sponsor or sponsors for the podcast,
we are relying on donations from you, our listeners, to help us keep this
vital work going.   Now more than ever, we need friends to
hold our communities together, bolster the solidarity required to
resist the horrors all around us,

and keep democracy alive.

 

If you are able, please make a financial contribution of any size to OURGENPOD.  
Rest assured that your gift is being put to good use with positive and solution-seeking dialogue,
an endangered aspect of our national discourse.   Donate HERE.

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Again, thank all of you who voted for OURGENPOD!  We did it!

 

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Our Heartfelt Thanks

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Julian & Rob

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A few accolades from our Guests & Listeners ...

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"Julian and Rob provide such a great service for the 55 Plus demographic. It is so under-served with good, cool, hip information and opportunities, and they do just that.”  

Michael Shrieve                         

Musician, Drummer for Santana at Woodstock ‘69 

Member of the Rock & Roll Hall of Fame 

Guest on Episode  9

"I love the last episode on friendship!   I had been thinking about that very

topic after my mother passed recently;  Who was there for me and who wasn’t and why. 

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"The Woodstock episodes were also interesting. Brought me back to my teen years and how my mother wouldn’t let me go with my neighbor! Imagine that!

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"Best of luck with future podcasts!"

Silvia Gambardella

Subscriber

"I am so glad I had a chance to listen to your Thanksgiving episode - It was thoughtful and timely and personal - really nicely done, I thought.  When have any of us really read the Mayflower Compact and reflected on its true meaning and what they wanted to achieve?  Or considered the intolerable conditions on the voyage?  Or that a woman's significance was simply as someone's spouse...?  Or related their hope for their future with what they would think of the country today?  Or what our ancestors would think of US?
 

"So much to think about."

Gail Zetter
Subscriber

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“I just want to let you know that the most recent episode of the podcast really knocked it out of the park.Dr. Shrand’s cure for incivility is indeed an excellent prescription for some of what ails our society.

Julian’s interviewing skills are excellent. He truly LISTENS to his guests and responds with thoughtful examinations and questions.  Your podcast is always enlightening and makes me stop and think about matters that underly the angst that many of us feel daily. Solutions to big problems are not easy to find. But episodes such as the one with Dr. Shrand and the earlier one with CATHERINE RYAN HYDE certainly gives us all food for thought. Keep up the good work, gentlemen.  We, your audience is listening.   And remember, kindness is contagious.”  

 Eric Seedman
Subscriber

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The State of Civility in America Series
 

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“Civility is a value I care about. It’s the heart and soul of the original “Pay It Forward” idea,and is a central theme in my other 43 novels as well.  We hear a lot today about the decline of civility in America, but what I feel we need is a more positive approach. How can we do better?

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"So I was honored to be the first guest on talkin’ ‘bout Our Generation’s’ series  on “The State of Civility in America.”   My interview with Host Julian Simmons was positive, friendly and thought-provoking, and I look forward to hearing future episodes.  I believe this podcast is serving a very valuable service, the kind I envisioned when “the Pay It Forward Movement” first took hold. I encourage everyone to listen and lend their support to this timely and important podcast.”                                   

 

Catherine Ryan Hyde 

Author of the NYTimes Best-Selling Book,
 “Pay It Forward”     

Guest on  Episode 11

"My readers often tell me that my characters make them think more about how we treat others, and how they can be a better person. Of course I’m thrilled if I can nudge my readers toward a kinder, more caring way of treating one another.  

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"I just want to say in support of your podcast ... the fact that you guys are taking on civility in a historic and liminal moment that has allowed rampant incivility to take over so much,  I  think what you're bringing to the conversation is important.  And just as importantly, I think the fact that you are finding ways and finding people to come on to talk about civility is something  that is  fresh, because we're swimming in so much of its opposite and people will hear this and, and hopefully  it will stimulate a movement to create civil spaces in our society."

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Dr. Shepherd Siegel,

Author of "Tricking Power Into Performing Acts of Love"

and "Disruptive Play:   The Trickster in Politics and Culture."

Guest on Episodes 14 & 16

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“I just finished listening to podcasts three and four. Each podcast is getting better and better. It's great. Although not a hippie, my friends and I were all about the music in college. My kids cannot believe that I loved Hendrix and Santana as well as John Sebastian and Lovin’ Spoonful. There was a real sense of community and caring for one another, and caring for the earth as well.  I clearly remember the very first Earth Day. Thank you for your efforts to promote community and a sense of camaraderie among us,Julian and Rob. This  podcast reminds us how being gentle with each other is a good thing.  


Thanks!”                         

Arlene Wong                       

Subscriber

Accolades

Wow. I just finished the podcast with Carol Green and Richie Havens. I'm just leaving this message because I want the producers directors to understand how awesome it was for me to be taken back to that time. You know, peace, love, and freedom, which I hadn't thought about in so many years, it's kind of relevant to today. So, I'm feeling good. It reminded me that we can still hope and believe and have faith that it's all gonna turn out okay in the end. So, thanks. Looking forward to the next podcast!

Suzette Fowler

Subscriber

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